Addiction seeps into every part of your life, including the quality and duration of your sleep. Poor sleep can be an obstacle during recovery due to the mental, emotional, and physical changes that take place in the body. However, you can influence when, how quickly, and how long you sleep by changing a few personal habits.
Sleep and addiction have a chicken and egg relationship; it’s hard to tell which came first. Let’s start by taking a look at how addiction can cause initial sleep loss.
Some addictive substances directly affect the circadian region of the brain. The circadian rhythms control many of your body’s behaviors that repeat in a cyclical 24-hour pattern, including the sleep cycle. Many addictive substances affect this area of the brain, resulting in various symptoms of insomnia like delayed sleep onset, wakefulness, or early waking.
For example, cocaine addicts have been shown to spend less time in the deep sleep phases. Heroin prevents cells from entering recovery cycles, and scientists hypothesize that the impulsive and cognitive deficits associated with ecstasy use may stem from changes in sleep neurobiology.
Poor sleep also reduces the effectiveness of the immune system, slows muscle recovery, and alters appetite and metabolism. Not to mention destabilizing moods and opening the door to increased chances of anxiety and depression.
However, addiction isn’t always the start of sleep problems. Poor sleep can often be a catalyst that leads to addiction. When insomnia hits with no relief in sight, some people turn to addictive substances, alcohol being the most common, to help them sleep. Sometimes it’s a matter of forgetting problems while for others, the addictive substance is a way to relax.
While alcohol is a popular way to fall asleep faster, it actually increases sleep problems. Yes, alcohol helps you feel sleepy at first, but mid-sleep cycle, it keeps the brain in the light sleep stages. In light sleep, the body doesn’t enter restorative slow wave sleep. In those light sleep stages, it’s easier to be awakened again and again.
Whether your sleep problems started with addiction or addiction began with sleep problems, there are ways to help regulate the sleep cycle.
Better sleep will take commitment and maybe a few changes to your nightly schedule. However, it’s worth it to have your own biology working for you rather than against you. It might take more time than average for your body to adjust based on the type of addiction you’re overcoming, but be patient with yourself and keep trying. It’s worth it to have good sleep on your side.
Guest Author: Ellie Porter
The Sleep Help Institute, SleepHelp.org
Addiction. It’s a scary word, but pretending it doesn’t exist won’t make it go away. If someone you love is living with addiction, it’s important to take action. Unfortunately, many people do not, simply because they don’t know where to start. The following guide serves to help you lead the path to recovery!
You cannot help a loved one suffering from addiction, if you are not able to recognize warning signs and symptoms.
The following are just a few of many warning signs that may indicate a drug or alcohol problem:
In addition to these signs, the Indian Health Service outlines symptoms of several commonly-abused drugs.
Sometimes, loved ones are aware that a person uses drugs or alcohol, but aren’t sure if it’s a problem. If a person is using drugs and alcohol despite negative consequences, abandoning responsibilities and enjoyed activities in favor of substance use, using drugs or alcohol to reduce withdrawal symptoms, or exhibiting other signs of a problem, it’s time to talk about it.
When confronting someone you love about a drug or alcohol addiction, it’s important to be sensitive and avoid confrontational behavior. Interrogating, attacking or antagonizing them can make matters worse. If your loved one feels attacked and becomes defensive, they will most likely be unreceptive to the conversation. Use non-judgmental communication tactics such as expressing observations, not conclusions, and being mindful of your tone. For additional insight into nonjudgmental communication, read more at The One Thing.
Don’t broach a conversation about your loved one’s addiction while they’re under the influence. Wait for a time that everyone is sober and relaxed to explain your concern. Some may benefit from group intervention in which friends and family (and sometimes a professional) all express their concern and support, while others may benefit from a one-to-one intervention.
There’s no guarantee an intervention will persuade your loved one to seek treatment. Nonetheless, you should enter the conversation with knowledge about available treatment options. If your loved one is receptive, knowing the options allows you to act swiftly, which is critical. Treatment programs are organized as follows:
In addition to these options, there are treatment centers that cater to men, women, business professionals, adolescents, LGBTQ, and other groups. Research your options well, as not all programs or treatment centers will be the right match.
After treatment, your loved one will need ongoing support to maintain their sobriety and prevent relapse. Once again, this is a life-long process. This includes psychiatric treatment, cognitive behavioral therapy, meditation, interpersonal therapy, financial support, among others, as they get on their feet to begin a new life. A substance-free living environment and emotional support are critical as they cope with the damage caused by addiction. At the same time, there is also a thin line between supporting a loved one through addiction recovery and developing dependent/co-dependant behavior. It’s important to set personal boundaries. Avoid enabling behaviors or triggering activities.Be aware, relapse is common; while sometimes deadly, others may proceed without another drink or drug for the rest of their life. It's incredibly important to be vigilant with the recovery process. Many family members and friends of those in recovery or trying to recover find strength in support groups like Al-Anon, Nar-Anon, and Adult Children of Alcoholics, among others.
Despite our best efforts, it’s not always possible to get a loved one help for their addiction. Ultimately, it’s up to the addicted person to choose sobriety and accept help. If your loved one isn’t ready to get clean, all you can do is leave the offer open, be patient, and keep loving them — and yourself.
It’s a new year, and your addiction has become your past. You want your present to embody the new you but aren’t sure how. Here are a few tips on how to keep addiction at bay and get your life back on track for the long haul.
Creating new friendships as an adult can be summed up in one word: hard. It’s not impossible, however; you just have to find the right fit for your sober lifestyle. When you were drinking or using, you already had a common interest with your “friends.” While you don’t have to leave everyone behind, you may need to get rid of the negative influences and seek friendships based on healthy interests. Fast Company recommends joining a pre-designed group (networking, book club, etc.). These provide consistency, the #1 ingredient needed to craft new friendships.
Moving away from bad memories and influences may be a wise choice, especially if you don’t have a support network at home. Relocating gives you a clean slate, a chance to begin anew without the social stigmas surrounding your addiction. Make your move as stress-free as possible by hiring movers to help with the heavy lifting. Likewise, pick a day and time to move when your crew is likely to be rested and ready to tackle the day without fatigue from overworking. June is the busiest month in San Diego to hire movers; January, February, and November, according to Hire A Helper, are the least demanding on your moving company.
You may not have had a reason for taking drugs in the first place, but you do have reasons to stop. Whether it’s for your health, family, or career, take some time to recommit to your sober stimulation. Don’t fill your days with pointless activities in an effort to ignore your addiction; instead, spend your time working on the things that make you want to be the best version of yourself.
You might not be a hiker, biker, or gardener, but your brain is wired for time outdoors. So much so that the simple act of being outside triggers a positive response in your grey matter. National Geographic explains that the brain changes when we are outside. Its alpha waves, those responsible for calmness, grow stronger while the frontal lobe, which keeps us on high alert, relaxes. Many studies have found that the act of looking at nature in the form of art has a similar effect. When you are outdoors, you are also more likely to exercise, which is another important facet of your recovery.
Think about what makes you happy and content. What activities make you feel calm and at-ease with the world? No matter what it is, find ways to do it. If you like to create art, learn to paint. Take up an instrument if sounds soothe your soul. You may even find that spending your time volunteering at a homeless shelter or as a mentor for others in recovery gives you a renewed sense of pride in yourself. Volunteer at your child’s school or spend a weekend each month cleaning up local parks. Hobbies are known to make us happy and increase overall quality-of-life so don’t be afraid to pick up a new habit that lets you express yourself in ways you’ve never done before.
Guest author Adam Cook is passionate about helping people find the necessary resources to save their lives from addiction. He is also the founder of Addiction Hub, a service that locates and catalogues addiction recovery resources.
The phrase "power of self" carries a certain weight and a broad definition. The simplistic meaning that many attribute to this phrase is that an individual has the capability to accomplish anything they put their mind to. However, this view will only lead to disappointment and frustration as it is completely normal for human limitations to exist.
In recovery, as one focuses on personal growth, the commonly referenced serenity prayer reveals a deeper meaning to the power of self. "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." The key here is that we will never find true peace, unless we learn to differentiate between what we can and cannot control and build upon that which we do have power over. We must focus on self-improvement, while letting go of that which we do not have control over. A perfect explanation of this is given by Mark Manson in his book "A Subtle Art of Not Giving a F***", in which he states:
"There is a simple realization from which all personal improvement and growth emerges. This is the realization that we, individually, are responsible for everything in our lives, no matter the external circumstances. We don't always control what happens to us. But we always control how we interpret what happens to us, as well as how we respond."
By learning how to properly deal with life's stressors and frustrations, we can practice self-discipline and unleash the self-fulfillment, happiness, and serenity that comes with this true power of self.
Theodore Germanos, MD
An addict is usually in denial that they have a problem. The point of having an intervention is to metaphorically hold a mirror up to the addict's face so that they may see the harm they are causing to themselves and those around them.
The right time is always now. The next time an addict uses could be their last. Negative consequences may not be enough to stop the addict from using. Interventions are necessary to help the individual stop before they cause further irreversible damage and ultimately avoid the most drastic and very real consequence of death. Things could get worse, and the time to stop is always now.
While some believe the addict must come to realize they need to stop on their own terms - medicine, psychology, and addiction science all refute this idea. Addiction is a disease and the addict may never come to this conclusion on their own. Treatment is necessary and it often becomes the responsibility of those around the addict to push them to seek treatment and provide that opportunity for change.
Interventions have been largely successful in providing individuals suffering from addiction that necessary push to turn their life around. While the work to being clean and sober never ends, it has to start somewhere. An intervention could be that starting point to a healthy and happy life. Enlist the help of a specialist by clicking below and filling the contact form.
Just hearing the word meditation generally triggers eye rolls. At least that was my response anytime someone asked me if I meditate. However, once I actually gained a better understanding of what meditation really is, I was able to find the benefits of the practice.
Contrary to popular belief, meditation is not the imagining of black nothingness and trying your hardest to erase all thoughts from your mind. That already is a large reason why many hate meditation; trying to do the impossible due to a misunderstanding of the exercise. So what is meditation then? Theres is no one specific way to meditate.
While there is much to be said about meditation, this is a great way to start and with these tips you can make a huge difference in your state of mind and body. In today's world, it's quite normal to harbor tension, worries, and stress. But with practice, we have the power to alleviate these negative feelings and transition to serenity.
Theodore Germanos, MD
Here is a great example of the power of music to help you relax, whether you are meditating or trying to fall asleep.
Exercise: Try closing your eyes and see if you can visualize the soothing sounds.
Source: MeditationRelaxClub. Sleep Music Delta Waves: Relaxing Music to Help you Sleep, Deep Sleep, Inner Peace and Autogenic Training. Relaxing Sounds for Relaxation Meditation, Tai Chi and Reiki. Meditation Music Video. Retrieved from www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQ6xgDI7Whc
When it comes to discussing the signs and symptoms of addiction, it often becomes clear that addiction is not some sort of moral fault or string of bad decisions. Rather, addiction is a disease rooted deep in parts of the brain responsible for human behavior.
Here are some things you should look out for (1):
Note, addiction extends beyond drugs and can exist in the form of many activities and behaviors, such as eating, sex, watching TV, or even something considered healthy, such as working-out. And as so, the above list can be applied to most other addictions, substituting the drug for the addictive behavior or activity.
Theodore Germanos, MD
Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect those of Living Above Addiction.
Among one of the most difficult things of addiction and recovery is the dreaded word: relapse. So many debates and arguments are to be had around this word. They say relapse is a part of recovery, relapse is normal, relapse is a sign of failure, relapse is inevitable, I’ve even heard some utter that you're not a true alcoholic/addict unless you have relapsed. Relapse is among one of the most insidious words in the world of addiction and recovery because it carries such loaded connotations and implications behind it - bringing with it freedom and chains; responsibility, accountability, and misplaced intentions. We addicts have the impeccable ability to manipulate, deceive, lie, and maintain denial not only to others and loved ones but especially to ourselves. Oh how we enjoy dwelling in that space of uncertainty and the shades of grey, deftly dwelling and being intimate with all it’s forms. How easily have I used the idea of relapse as a shelter from responsibility and don the excuse in order to place blame elsewhere. “I’m sorry, I really did try, but you got to understand that relapse is a part of recovery.” Yes, on face value this has some truth, but in the manipulation of that statement, the true meaning is a shirking of responsibility. Responsibility is placed elsewhere on intangible things such as “the disease” or the idea that treatment doesn’t always work, at least for me.
The idea that responsibility is directly with me or in the choices I make, or the avoidance of real underlying causes, or denial of feelings and emotions. One can clearly see how dangerous this line of thinking can be and how slippery this slope is. Yet, once again there is truth hidden in that word, in that phrase. You can see the path of good intention that lays there. The idea of solace and hope is birthed and offered to those who have tried time and time again returning to treatment multiple times. One can easily see how there is no other choice than to believe this idea and spin relapse into a positive renewal of effort. One must be able to pick themselves up and be able to move on and without hope and extracting important lessons from the ashes one will only be stuck and mired, quickly consumed.
So the question becomes: are those good intentions and desire to provide hope and forward movement worth the potential quagmire? Can we as addicts truly understand the idea of relapse and harness it to benefit our recovery? Can we deny an aspect that is plainly there in the process of addiction and recovery? How can we come to terms with this term, this idea in proper measure? Do we accept relapse as a normal circumstance or do we fight the good fight and hope against all odds yet not give into naiveté?
I and many others have struggled with this word and what whirlwinds it brings on it’s coat tails. I am not the first and will not be the last to ponder this enigma. But as it is a part of my story, I will venture to come to my own understanding of it and try to in right measure wrestle with it. I want to examine my own experience and try to answer these questions knowing that there is no one true answer that is definitive. One thing I do believe in, it is the journey not the destination. So, it is far more important to ask the question than to find the answer. I also know for myself that addiction is a disease that requires constant work to maintain sobriety and be in recovery. It is this work that requires prioritization, it is a process, and a fight, one well worth being in and it is this musing of relapse that falls directly in line with this pursuit of never resting on one's laurels and being actively vigilant in the ongoing process of being in recovery. So now that the problem is posed and the questions asked, what answers will present itself and can the lens of my own experience provide illumination and focus rather than muddying and making opaque the view, because despite all the academics and philosophical wonderings, experience is the true king.
Addiction Counselor and Guest Blogger
The decision to get clean and drug free is an intimidating decision. Just making that decision is half the battle. Living Above Addiction is here to help and support you in taking that step, while developing a personalized treatment plan that will markedly increase your chances of success.
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Theodore Germanos, MD